John Challis Courage for Life Foundation

May 21, 2008

Prayers for John

Filed under: Uncategorized — by kmilanovich @ 12:29 pm

Hi John!  I just wanted to blog to tell you how much of an inspiration you are to me and my family!  You truly seem to be able to conquer anything through He who is strengthening you.  All of our love!

Kristen and Mike Milanovich

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  2. Johnny,

    I am so proud of you!!!!

    Love ya!

    Coach Wets

    Comment by Steve Wetzel — June 6, 2008 @ 5:33 pm

  3. John thankyou for presenting your story to the world. Not only are you an inspiration to myself but, to everyone else on this planet. You symbolize everything that is good in us. Your courage and determination have captured my hearts desire to be a better person. I want you to know you have changed my life and you are a hero to me. I too love sports and when I saw your story made me remember everything I accomplished. And to do it so peoticly gave me chills. I am proud of you John and remember moments like that live with you through eternity. Your dedication and good nature will never be forgotten. Your story is legendary and we be passed on through generations. John legends and hero’s are remembered forever. Thanks to your family for letting the world into their lives when they want to charish every moment with you. And once again thank you John for changing my outlook on life and being a hero to me.

    Comment by Daniel Keith — June 8, 2008 @ 8:49 pm

  4. It was wonderful to see you at your graduation party and I left feeling even more inspired! Your picture is on my computer to look at everyday and to remind me how fortunate I am! Your courage has given me the strength to know there isn’t anything I can’t endure!

    We will continue to pray for you, your family and know that you have done God’s will with your message. You have accomplished much more than any 18 year old I know and praise God for your message being heard around the world.

    We love you!
    MaryAnn

    Comment by MaryAnn Lubas — June 9, 2008 @ 1:52 pm

  5. John, you are the most incredible young man I have ever known. You will always and forever be an inspiration to me, your strength and faith in God! You are in my thoughts and prayers daily! May God bless you always! And CONGRATULATIONS on graduating Magna Cum Laude! You’re a winner!

    Comment by Sue Nazarchuk — June 11, 2008 @ 12:20 am

  6. John, thank you for your sharing your amazing story. I saw it on ESPN and I knew it would be on again so I asked my wife, Lisa, to watch and she did. It touched both of us greatly and we would like to share our story with you. A lady by the name of Kay Barrett from Columbia,S.C. had cancer so bad the doctors gave her 3 months to live. She had 18 tumors, 4 of which were inoperable. Kay along with her husband Tom and many friends and family members prayed for Kay. Kay and Tom beleived their prayers were answered one day when a man approached them about a natural food that might help her. Kay ate the whole food six times a day. In 46 days all of her cancer was gone. This whole food has the highest amount of antioxidants on the planet that they know of so far. “They” being a team of research doctors led by Dr. Elliot A. Brinton and Dr. Steven Warren from the University of Utah. This food has changed my father and mother’s lives. This all natural whole food does not contain sugar, milk, caffine, waxes, no additives or fillers. It is cold processed, therefore all of the nutrition is left within. This food is Xocai
    The HEALTHY Chocolate. This is raw, unprocessed, unfermented, non-alkalized cocoa. John this has helped the quality of many peoples lives. I know this will help the quality of your life. You may go to http://www.mydoctorchocolate.com for science and research. E-mail him if you like. It’s Dr. Steven Warren’s site. Thank you once again for you story and your time. God bless you and your family.
    Sam B. West

    Comment by Sam West — June 24, 2008 @ 5:20 pm

  7. John – I saw your story on ESPN last night and I was greatly moved. I used to work for ESPN a 4 years ago and I am an enormous sports fan, yet your story encompasses so much more, and transcends sports in general. My brother (basically my twin – 8 years ago) survived cancer in his neck, and I had the privelege of watching him fight through chemotherapy and radiation. I wear two rings of his each day to remind me of his strength. These days I myself am facing down some difficult times, and have been truly inspired by your story. I have a daily planner, on the inside cover of this daily planner I have two quotes that mean a tremendous deal to me. Today I added “Courage + Believe = Life” – John Challis. The other quote in my planner? I leave you with this: “The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.” – Martin Luther King JR. John….Thank You…..God Bless…
    Gregory Hollman

    Comment by Gregory Hollman — June 25, 2008 @ 3:16 am

  8. Dear John,
    I saw your story on ESPN, and just read a story about you on ESPN.com. Your maturity and courage (a term often misused in sports) are remarkable and an inspiration. I just lost my job and was starting to feel a little sorry for myself, and you’ve made me realize how silly that is. I wish you all the best and will keep you in my thoughts.
    Peter V.

    Comment by Peter Vanderhaden — June 26, 2008 @ 4:20 pm

  9. Hi John,

    Myself and my family live in San Diego as my husband is a Marine but are originally from the Pittsburgh area so I check the local news there on-line and saw your story.

    You are a brave and inspiring young man and your parents must be so amazingly proud of you! Having a 7 year old daughter who has special medical needs and has spent months and months of her life in the ICU, often fighting for her life, I can only hope for her to grow up to be as strong and optimistic as you.

    As we will probably never meet on earth, someday we will in heaven-the place where the pain is gone and we can shine as anything and everything we want to be.

    I will pass your story onto others so that you can continue to touch the hearts and change the lives of others as you have been chosen to.

    You and your family are in our prayers-always.

    God Bless,
    Charisse

    Comment by Charisse Moreland — June 27, 2008 @ 9:58 am

  10. Dear John,

    You are a true inspiration, your courage is remarkable. Thank you for sharing your story with us and giving hope and strength to every life you touch. You are in our prayers.

    God Bless,
    Mary & Emily

    Comment by Mary & Emily Bodnar — June 27, 2008 @ 2:35 pm

  11. John,
    I just got done listening to Dan Patrick. Tears are rolling down my face. Tears of joy, Tears of honor, to hear you tell of your life. I too am I survivor of cancer. I am putting your site out on my Caringbridge site. I love to share stories of hope.. and you buddy, are it!

    God Bless you and your spirit.
    Jody Ochs

    Comment by Jody Ochs — June 27, 2008 @ 3:54 pm

  12. My favorite quote is “Do what you can, with what you have, where you are”, from Theodore Roosevelt. I can’t think of anyone else more embracing this than you after hearing your story…God Bless! You are a great inspiration!

    Aaron

    Comment by Aaron — June 27, 2008 @ 3:55 pm

  13. Congratulations on all you have accomplished! You have done more in 18 years than almost everyone does in a lifetime. Stay strong keep fighting and know that your impact on this world will never be forgotten…

    Comment by Jim Lizzi — June 27, 2008 @ 4:59 pm

  14. You are an inspiration to me sir. I have a chronic illness and sometimes I get down about it. You’ve shown me I have no right whatsoever to feel sorry for myself.

    My prayers are with you and your family.

    Comment by Kevin — June 27, 2008 @ 6:23 pm

  15. I was made aware of John via his interviews with Dan Patrick and his radio show. If anyone can watch a clip of John and not be motviated to do anything they are a better person than I am. John is beyond unreal amazing and we all should be half as great as he is. The world is a MUCH better place because of John

    Comment by Erik — June 28, 2008 @ 4:15 am

  16. Hi John ,
    I got know about u today on Dan Patrick .Man u r a true inspiration to all of us who bitch and moan about a stupid things in life . I have read and seen everything about u on internet today and it just warms my heart .My best wishes to u man.God Bless u man…
    Take care…
    Sunny Singh
    (Bay Area CALI)

    Comment by sunny singh — June 28, 2008 @ 5:13 am

  17. John,you are such and amazing person,I read your story in the Beaver County Time’s,I will keep you in my prayer’s,and I hope you will be going to CCBC in the fall,I hope God will answer your prayer to be well again,you are a person that can teach so many other’s how to live,may God bless you and your Family,Nancy

    Comment by nancy zalusky — June 30, 2008 @ 12:19 am

  18. Dear John,

    I first saw your ESPN video a few days ago. My son is an avid sports guy and when he received the YouTube forward, he sent it to me.

    Since then I have been looking for a way to reach you directly, to tell you what an impact you have made on me. In short, you are the strongest person I have ever seen. I loved your saying, “Courage + Believe = Life”; I can’t stop thinking about it, so simple. My son said he wanted a John Challis #11 football jersey. He has a collection of several jerseys but I know yours would be extra special. I would like one as well. Perhaps your new foundation could print them and sell them to profit the foundation, with your saying printed on them of course.

    You must get a hundreds of prayers and best wishes, please add mine. I have said several prayers for you and I will say several more. You are a most remarkable young man; I didn’t think they made them like you anymore. Your parents and sister must be very proud of you.

    Stay strong and God bless you and your family. You are my hero.

    Thank you,

    Glenn J. Gaeke Jr.

    Comment by Glenn J. Gaeke Jr. — June 30, 2008 @ 1:59 am

  19. Dear John,

    As a former resident of Center Township, I keep up with my hometown newspaper. My husband, son, and I moved south 22 years ago, but we still have family in Beaver County.

    I just finished reading the article about you in today’s news. What an inspiration you are to me.

    Unfortunately I missed the first article as I was diagnosed with leukemia in early June of 2006, just before you. That summer was like a blur. After massive chemotherapy and a bone marrow transplant that fall, I continue to be in remission. I am so lucky to be alive as I had days to weeks to live after misdiagnosis had I not referred myself to the Medical University of South Carolina. In late April of 2006 I was getting so fatigued; all I wanted to do was sleep, my gums ached, etc. Researching my symptoms led me to signs of leukemia.

    When I got my news, I knew from the way I was feeling that it wasn’t going to be good. I kind of did the same as you…I asked my oncologist what we could do to start fighting this problem. I was shocked at the moment, as was my husband, but I wanted to live. The doctor had a room reserved for me before he gave me the news as my treatment had to start immediately. That was the first 25 days of massive chemo over four months before my transplant in October 2006.

    I have some health issues due to the chemo, and my doctors keep an eye on things. I believe that God spared me for now for a reason and that is to spread a positive attitude to “never give up” and to volunteer to help others. “Never Give Up” was our team name for the American Cancer Society Relay for Life this past April. It was the beginning of my volunteer service and was a very moving experience for me and my family.

    I really like to talk about my experience. For me it helps to offer hope. It’s wonderful that you can talk so freely to your family. How nice that you have that rapport with them. So many teens today just don’t seem to have that connection with parents in general, and that’s unfortunate. It’s apparent that yours are caring and strong. And, we can’t forget your sister. I’m sure she’s special, too. And caregiving is a very tough job. I couldn’t have made it through my ordeal without my family and friends.

    Please continue to hope. And, please know there are others in far away places that care and will pray for you and your family. “Never Give Up!” God Bless. You’re my hero and inspiration, John.

    Caring in South Carolina
    Chris Martin

    Comment by Chris Martin — June 30, 2008 @ 4:44 am

  20. John:

    I know you’ve seen and heard this a few thousand times recently, but you are a true hero and rawk star. I am forever changed and better for hearing your incredible words of wisdom. I am originally from the West Deer township area and a friend shared your link. I am so blessed and honored to know of you and your victories.

    Thank you for your bravery and being a true warrior. I have a young friend who is battling cancer right now and I have shared your links with her mother in the hope it will inspire her as well.

    Charlotte Click
    Plain City, Ohio

    Comment by Charlotte Click — July 1, 2008 @ 8:14 pm

  21. John,

    Just wanted to pass along some words of encouragement and let you know that you are a special young kid who has reached so many hearts. I heard you on Dan patrick’s show and wanted to let you know that you are a warrior, a fighter and a true hero. Your words and your spirit are definitely something for all in this world to truly take hold of. I want to pass along my best wishes to you and your family during this difficult time and to let you know that you are a MAN!!! Stay strong my brotha…

    Respectfully,
    Robert Guerrero
    Lakewood, CA.

    Comment by Robert G. — July 1, 2008 @ 11:35 pm

  22. John,

    I do not know you but have read numerous articles about your battle. I just want thank you for inspiring me and to live my life to the fullest. Keep fighting as I know there are a lot of people pulling for you. I want to pass my best wishes to you and your family. Thank you for making a stranger a better person.

    Warmly,
    Jonathan Haas
    Deerfield Beach, FL

    Comment by Jonatha Haas — July 2, 2008 @ 11:01 am

  23. John,
    If you get a chance check out the cyberknife. http://www.accuray.com/. There is a video on how it works and it’s able to reach different areas that the cancer has invaded. My girfriend was told the same thing you were told about how there were not many options and that she would’nt have much longer. I hope you at least check it out. It might just be for you. Good luck big man.

    Comment by Robert — July 2, 2008 @ 8:38 pm

  24. Hi John
    I just finished reading your story in the Beaver County Times, and you are an amazing young man. I am blessed by the fact that you have such faith and courage, you are such an example for others adults and children alike. It was great to watch you at PNC park.I hope and pray that you get well.I am a Christian and I read your comment about God getting you sick, I really don’t believe that God makes or gets us sick, because God loves his children too much and he loves you very much too. It’s just that parts of our body fail us and don’t work the way they should. My family and I will be praying for you that God will heal you and keep you with us. God bless you
    Martha Ory
    Baden

    Comment by Martha Ory — July 3, 2008 @ 1:32 am

  25. Wow true heart, and a great spirit of humanity!! Your story and your fight is amazing and encouraging. You have touched many many lives. You have renewed a spirit of encouragement in my life and I live thousands of miles away. I saw the story on ESPN and isnt it sweet to just be on a ball field and play the game!! My hopes and prayers are with you and your family. I hope I can raise my children to be half the man your parents have raised! God bless. PS the idea of selling Challis jerseys for charity is brilliant. I know we would wear one with pride!!!

    Comment by James Johnston — July 4, 2008 @ 4:25 pm

  26. John:

    What an faith filled young man you are. You are a very strong young man that lets his faith in God get him through the terrible cancer that you are going through. You are in our daily prayers. May God bless you.

    Beth Schaffer

    Comment by Beth — July 5, 2008 @ 11:19 am

  27. John,

    Thank you for touching our lives with your message of courage in the face of such a terrible disease. Our lives have also been touched with cancer and it is your approach that makes it easier for all of us to enjoy the time that we have with each other.

    Please know that you are never a burden and that your family and friends are by your side because they love you and will always be there.

    Even when you are gone, your powerful spirit will still be here for others to remember your remarkable outlook on life.

    If the jersey thing works out, we would definitely wear the jersey and share with others your story and inspiring message.

    Peace be with you and your family, John.

    Brian & Josette

    Comment by Brian Riley & Josette Parker — July 5, 2008 @ 8:28 pm

  28. When your faced with a gut-wrenching diagnosis, eventually the grief sets in and it throws you into a black abyss of enormous pain and internal struggles, besides the deep physical pain, the emotional pain is even greater and more unbearable. It truly shakes you to the core. It takes you to depths, you never knew existed. A magnitude of which no one can fathom…unless you have had to deal with this same experience…the thought that your going to die so young. The dread, despair, helplessness, loss of control, the anger, loneliness, the pain, and unbelieve of this horiffic nightmare, it’s so intense it fills every cell in your body -you feel as if you could explode….or just crawl out of your skin. Your forced on a”Spiritual Journey” – searching, questioning, analyzing (the why’s, life, faith, God, the purpose, the “What If’s” and the “If only’s”), that leads you right to the brink of insanity.

    It forces you if your brave enough to enter that chamber of our minds, an inner chamber (stillness and quietness) the region of our minds where we can go and find inner peace and strengthen ourselves in the Lord our God. And there you can gather strength to meet those challenges that we have to face in our lives. We have no control over illness and death, we can’t change those situations, but what we can change is what is within us to gather the strength here in our hearts to rise above situations and to be able meet those challenges out there with love, wisdom, compassion, and spiritual strength.

    Eventually, you are completely changed and your eyes are opened to a certain “Wisdom”. An “Understanding” that could only come from this kind of sorrow. You see everything differently now.

    John has become wise beyond his years, he’s reached a level where he has inner strength and peace because he walked that painful journey that was needed to get him to this point. His spirit shines bright within him for all to see. That’s why he’s an inspiration….he is Christ-like….he walks in the image and character of our savior Jesus Christ..because that’s who’s walking with him…now.

    “Behold, I stand at the door and knock; if any hear my voice, and open the door, I will come into him and will sup with him, and he with me” (Rev. 3:20).

    Your in our prayers,
    Cathy Bowen

    Comment by Cathy Bowen — July 5, 2008 @ 11:11 pm

  29. Dear John: I first learned f you from Mike WHite’s story in the Post-Gazette. I emailed Mr. White, and offered my daughter offered our Penguin tickets (Flyers game#1) but he stated you were to be the Pens special guest that night. We were honored to hear them announce you. I then heard you on ESPN and saw you at the Yankee -Pirate game #2.

    We are from Altoona, PA and feel honored to share Western Pennsylvania with you. You are the best example of dinity and integrity and humanity that anyone will witness in our lifetime. My 15 year old daughter has been following your story and you have taught her (and us all) more about the right and good things in life than I have done in my life.
    Thank you John, for being you and realizing your life has great meaning. I am 53 and learn much from you. God Bless and you and your family are with us always. PLEASE consider coming to Altoona and seeing Curve. We would be honored Dan Milliron

    Comment by Dan Milliron — July 14, 2008 @ 1:16 am

  30. John,
    I think about you every day and wish your website would offer some updates. I used to work with your mom. We now work in different departments, but occasionally I see her and always ask “how’s the boy?”. You are a totally amazing young man. I could never be as brave as you have been. I lost my only brother to this dreadful disease. If you or your family need anything, have your mom call me at the Courthouse. I will try in anyway to help. Stay strong John. Keep the Faith.

    Comment by Pamela Byrne — July 16, 2008 @ 12:32 am

  31. Dear John,

    There is a verse in 2Timothy 4:7, that says “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.”

    John, when you meet Jesus face to face you will be able to say those words with all the conviction of the great saints and believers that have gone before you.

    I’ve been fortunate to have many people in my life that have guided and inspired me, and now John you are among those people.

    You are truly a remarkable spirit. John, God bless you and your family. Your life is truly a miracle.

    Carla McConnell
    Toledo, OH

    Comment by Carla McConnell — July 17, 2008 @ 12:09 pm

  32. Hi John,

    I have been so sad since I saw on the news today what the doctors have been saying. I know you know what is best for yourself and you will do it. I just want you to know how truly inspirational and amazing you are! Everytime you are on the news or there is an article about you it brightens my day to hear your words. We are blessed to have you, and you have changed the way so many of us look at life, not only in western PA but all over the country. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom with us. Stay strong and God bless you!

    -Laura

    Comment by Laura — July 17, 2008 @ 6:03 pm

  33. John, Im ashlynd, i did the skittle contest for you, you inspire me to live my life to the fullest even when i feel like everything is coming down, thanks so much

    -Ashlynd

    Comment by Ashlynd — July 21, 2008 @ 10:11 pm

  34. Hello John,

    It’s an honor to say that my oldest child Angela is a life warrior also.
    She was diagnosed at 18 months with a rare disease known as Histiocytosis X. She will turn 27 in August and is still battling on just as you are. She had another brain surgery 2 years ago and that was followed with Gamma Knife procedure. This March she had surgery to put her left leg back together after she fell and shattered her femur. She’s tough as nails like you and touches EVERYONE she comes in contact with just as you. I feel you are kindred spirits even though you haven’t met. God is providing you both with the strentgh to battle on and we your families are honored to share this awesome journey with you both. John you are teaching even the wisest among us and I thank you for the lesson.
    Love,
    Angie’s mom, Lisa

    Comment by Lisa — July 22, 2008 @ 10:14 pm

  35. John-I have been praying for you every day since I read about you in the Trib last week. You are wonderful. God Bless!
    Denise

    Comment by Denise — July 27, 2008 @ 7:59 pm

  36. John,
    You truly are an inspiration to all! I wish that everyone could be positive and take things day-by-day as you do. I pray for you every moment I can. You are a fighter and will get through this!

    Comment by Heather — July 28, 2008 @ 10:35 pm

  37. As a former cancer patient, freedom graduate, and accquaintence of Coach Steve Wetzel…

    i just wanted to tell you how inspiring it is to see you fight your amazing fight, all the while giving our Lord and Savoiur Jesus Christ all the praise.

    When I was diagnosed with non-hodgkins lymphoma in 1993 (i was 15 yrs old facing 18 months of chemotherapy – cytoxin/vincristine/methotrexate along with prednisone and all the other awful tasting pills) i didnt have one ounce of your ability to put all else above yourself. you are leading a selfless life that will surely garner the blessings of the Lord. as a born-again Christian, i find myself inspired daily by your strength and tenacity, and i (like MANY MANY OTHERS) am so thankful that you have chosen to give glory to God, even in your times of turbulation.

    ive wanted to contact you for so long, but i realize your plate is full. i just needed to let you know that you are SO SPECIAL. the peace the God grants us is such an important message to share with the world in this day and age, and you have been an advocate for His grace like no other.

    my last of 36 chemo sessions was in 6/94 and i graduated Freedom HS in 1995. i also came to know Coach Wetzel while i attended PSU-Beaver with him in 96-97.

    God bless you John, you are in my prayers always. Ephesians 2:8 & Roman 5:8

    Your Brother in Christ,

    Benjamin D. Klein
    bensaraklein@comcast.net
    my parents still live on Harvey Run Road

    please dont hesitate to contact me if need be. my heart is always open.

    Comment by benklein — July 29, 2008 @ 1:09 pm

  38. Hey 1-1…

    You are a true soldier of Jesus Christ!
    Continue to shout His name from the highest mountain!

    ~Proverbs 21:1

    Comment by The Signore Family — July 29, 2008 @ 5:22 pm

  39. DEAR JOHN,
    I HAVE SAT HERE TONITE AND READ ALL THE WONDERFUL TRIBUTES AND WONFDERFUL THINGS FOLKS HAVE TO SAY TO YOU. AND EACH AND EVERY ONE OF THEM ARE SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO TRUE. YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION. I AM A 61 YEAR OLD WOMAN AND I HAVE SOME AILMENTS WHICH USED TO GET ME DOWN. SOMETIMES IT REQUIRES I USE A WHEEL CHAIR, BUT AFTER SEEING YOU ON TV MANY TIMES AND ESPECIALLY TODAY AFTER YOU RECEIVED THE KEY TO CITY OF CONWAY( I LIVE IN ECONOMY BORO) I WANT TO TELL YOU THAT BECAUSE OF HOW SPECIAL YOU ARE, HOW STRONG YOU ARE, EVEN AT THIS TIME, AND YOU EVEN KEEP YOUR SENSE OF HUMOR, YOU ARE A MODEL FOR THE REST OF THE WORLD. MY HUSBAND AND I WERE WATCHING YOU THIS EVENING ON THE NEWS AND I CRIED. IF I WAS THERE WITH YOU, YOU MIGHT HAVE CRACKED A JOKE, BECAUSE YOU ARE SUCH A SWEET KID. GOD BLESS YOU JOHN, YOU WILL BE IN MY MY PRAYERS FOREVER AND ALWAYS. YOUR FOLKS MUST BE SOOOO PROUD OF YOU. YOU CHANGE LIVES JOHN. I ONCE HEARD THAT SUCCESS IN LIFE IS AFTER ONE PASSES ON, THEY ARE A SUCCESS IF THEY MADE THE WORLD A BETTER PLACE FOR HAVING BEEN IN IT. WELL YOU MORE THAN QUALIFY. YOU HAVE CHANGED MANY LIVES , ICLUDING MINE. THANKS AGAIN JOHN, AND HANGTOUGH.
    NANCI AND MIKE MCHALE

    Comment by NANCI MCHALE — August 3, 2008 @ 4:36 am

  40. john, i first learned of you when your high school graduation sory aired on the news. i have just seen the story today on you being honorary mayor in your town. you truly are an inspiration. i think of my health problems of being morbidly obese and how hard it is to lose the weight and then i hear your story and see how you handle life. i am 41 y/o and you really inspire me. if an 18 y/o young man can have a positive attitude facing his own death then i can face life with a positive attitude. thank you for inspiring me and my prayers and thoughts go to you and your family

    Comment by jim adams — August 3, 2008 @ 12:42 pm

  41. Dear John,
    I’ve wanted to let you know for the past two years how awestruck I am by your courage and grace. I work for Chartwell and I’m one of the Team 3 pharmacists that care for you. I am also from Beaver County..one of a few in my company..and I am so proud to say I’m from the same area as you!
    I want you to know you have your own fan club at Chartwell and we are praying for you everyday. It has been an honor to care for you and we hope that we have made a small impact on your struggles.
    I want you to know that you will always be one of “our kids” and that we are so blessed to know you. Stay Strong…You are not alone. I pray God continues to Bless you.

    Mary Fran Barbato

    Comment by Mary Fran Barbato — August 4, 2008 @ 4:35 am

  42. My daughter has been telling me about you for a few years now and the more I hear the more I think more people should be like you! It only takes one person to change a life and YOU have changed so many. My dad recieved an email and he always said that’s the way your life should be, it wasn’t until he passed that we all realized that it fit him. I think it is very fitting for you as well! I know you Mom, Dad and sister are VERY proud of you, you can see it in their eyes when they talk about you.

    Life is not a ourney to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out and proclaiming— WOW – WHAT A RIDE!!!!!!!!!!

    Our prayers are with you all and may GOD bless you always!

    Comment by Mandy — August 5, 2008 @ 2:47 am

  43. John,
    I have been following your story online and on the news. I don’t think that there is anything I can say that hasn’t already been said. I just want you to know that you have been a hero to so many people – more than you realize. You’ve taught me some amazing lessons in humility and courage. Every time I feel down or stressed out or like life isn’t fair, I think of you and your positive outlook on life. You will always be an inspiration to so many people. Stay strong. My prayers and thoughts are with you!

    God Bless You and Your Family!

    Comment by Tiffany — August 5, 2008 @ 7:32 pm

  44. Once again…You are still inspiring us ALL!! You are an absolute amazing young man and can still laugh and crack a joke through what you are enduring. We don’t know you but we love you, John, and wish for you a painfree, happy, long life.

    Comment by Heather — August 9, 2008 @ 2:24 pm

  45. John,
    There is one thing that you said that was more amazing to me than all of the other incredibly courageous and wise things you have said. It will stick with me forever…you said (I don’t know the actual quote and I can’t seem to find the story again) something to the effect that you were EXCITED to get to meet God and Jesus and that was helping you through. How inspiring and uplifting! You have touched so many, I have to believe that your belief that God is working through you is true! Many prayers for you and your family. Love and blessings.

    Comment by Candee — August 11, 2008 @ 6:29 pm

  46. John

    I have been following your story for some time now. I live across the river from you in Monaca, PA. We share Beaver County and also cancer. I am truly inspired by you at 18 years old – your outlook and enthusiasm for life. You are so wise beyond your years

    I just want to say that I pray for you and your family daily.
    I hope that you can feel the power of prayer. God does not make us sick. He knows how much we can handle.

    You truly have touched so many lives. Don’t ever think that you are not an inspiration. God has given you a gift in that you continue to touch so many lives in so many ways.

    I hope to meet you in heaven some day. You keep fighting the good fight. (My oncologist told me that attitude is everything)
    And believe me, YOU GOT THE ATTITUDE!!!

    God Bless you JOHN CHALLIS
    Love ya !!

    Comment by Vicki — August 12, 2008 @ 7:10 pm

  47. John,

    You are truly an inspiration. God Bless you. You have touched so many souls. The knowledge and wisdom you possesed was incredible. You will be truly missed by those who knew you I am sure and by so many who didn’t even know you. Your soul and spirit will live on forever and the memories of you will never die. I know God probably didn’t waste anytime taking you into Heaven. God Bless you and you should know the world will not be the same without you here.

    Thank you
    Scott Schultz

    Comment by Scott Schultz — August 19, 2008 @ 7:31 pm

  48. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Challis family and friends at this time of loss. John was such an inspiration to so many and his beautiful smile will surely be missed.

    Comment by Lori — August 19, 2008 @ 7:38 pm

  49. To Family and Friends, I just found out about John’s death. I am very sorry for your loss. I was at work and telling some of my co-workers about John passing away and this guy was standing by and he said “Who are you talking about, did someone close to you die” and I started to tell JOHN’S STORY because this client had never heard of John Challis(I can’t beleave that)but anyway I told him about John Challis and everything about him. When he walked away I thought there will be people everywhere talking about John and believe me this will last for years there will be a person talking about John and someone will say who are you talking about and then that person will tell JOHN’S STORY.

    Comment by Linda Ketterer — August 19, 2008 @ 8:08 pm

  50. To the Challis family – I am so sorry for your loss. I first heard about John during the Stanley Cup playoffs and soon after saw him on ESPN – I play in an adult baseball league and I wrote C+B=L on my hat too…It is so great that John was able to inspire so many people. What a wonderful young man.

    Comment by Dave — August 19, 2008 @ 8:36 pm

  51. To the Challis family:

    My heart and prayers are with you in this difficult time.

    John was an inspiring young man and I can honestly say he changed the way I look at life.

    God bless you!

    Comment by Mike — August 19, 2008 @ 8:45 pm

  52. To The Challis Family and Wetzel,
    I am so sorry for your loss. He was a hero to many people, including myself and my family. May John rest in peace and may you have comfort knowing that he is your guardian angel.

    Comment by Niki Stedina — August 19, 2008 @ 8:58 pm

  53. What a guy! He was a great inspiritation. I had the pleasure of woring with him for an MSA broadcast. I will never forget it.

    Comment by Lee Mohn — August 19, 2008 @ 10:03 pm

  54. John did wat he wanted 2 do
    he graduated and lived life at the fullest.
    im gona always remember ur moto John courage+believe=LIFE
    ur an insperation even tho ur not here ur spirt will always b
    WE’LL NVR 4GET U!!!

    Comment by kelsie matlick — August 19, 2008 @ 10:19 pm

  55. John did what he wanted to do
    he graduated and lived life and the fullest.
    I’ll always remember ur moto John, courage+believe=LIFE
    your an insperation to us all, even tho your not here ur spirt always will be

    WE’LL NVR FORGET YOU!!!!!!!!

    R.I.P John Challis

    Comment by kelsie matlick — August 19, 2008 @ 10:24 pm

  56. When tomorrow starts without me, and I’m not there to see;
    If the sun should rise and find your eyes all filled with tears for me;
    I wish so much you wouldn’t cry the way you did today,
    while thinking of the many things we didn’t get to say.
    I know how much you love me, as much as I love you,
    and each time you think of me I know you’ll miss me too;
    But when tomorrow starts without me, please try to understand,
    that an angel came and called my name and took me by the hand,
    and said my place was ready in heaven far above,
    and that I’d have to leave behind all those I dearly love.
    But as I turned to walk away, a tear fell from my eye,
    for all life, I’d always thought I didn’t want to die.
    I had so much to live for and so much yet to do,
    it seemed almost impossible that I was leaving you.
    I thought of all the yesterdays, the good ones and the bad,
    I thought of all the love we shared and all the fun we had.
    If I could relive yesterday, I thought, just for awhile,
    I’d say goodbye and kiss you and maybe see you smile.
    But then I fully realized that this could never be,
    for emptiness and memories would take the place of me.
    And when I thought of worldly things that I’d miss come tomorrow,
    I thought of you, and when I did, my heart was filled with sorrow.
    But when I walked through heaven’s gates, I felt so much at home.
    When God looked down and smiled at me, from His great golden throne,
    He said, “This is eternity and all I’ve promised you”.
    Today for life on earth is past but here it starts anew.
    I promise no tomorrow, but today will always last,
    and since each day’s the same day, there’s no longing for the past.
    But you have been so faithful, so trusting, and so true.
    Though there were times you did some things you knew you shouldn’t do.
    But you have been forgiven and now at last you’re free.
    So won’t you take my hand and share my life with me?
    So when tomorrow starts without me, don’t think we’re far apart,
    for every time you think of me, I’m right here in your heart.

    Comment by Jeremy Swegman — August 20, 2008 @ 1:13 am

  57. As a teacher at FHS, I always felt there was a disconnect between all the students. It never seemed like there was one common purpose that they all believed in. John became that purpose, that rallying cry, that common link that pulled together several hundred kids who prior to this had never found a reason to all come together as one student body. John, you have accomplished more in your too short life than many “great” men have accomplished in their long lives. I barely knew you John, but I got to know you enough to understand why those students cared about and loved you so much. You have taught everyone what it means to live. Peace be with you.

    Comment by Craig Bohon — August 20, 2008 @ 3:10 am

  58. Hi i just wanted to send my thoughts and prayers to the family.i lost my brother to luekemia in aug of 06.and john very much so reminded me of him in many ways..the courage,the kindness,the all around just great kid.i couldnt believe it today when it came on the news.just please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and he will be missed.

    Comment by Kathy — August 20, 2008 @ 3:12 am

  59. My thoughts are with your family and friends. It’s a sad day to loose such an inspiring young man. You’re attitude towards live, and how you lived yours should make everyone who knew John very proud.

    I hope we can all remember how John lived, and strive to achieve just a fraction of what he has. It gave me great pride and hope in my old Freedom High School, as there have been a large number of people who have gotten the great opportunity to meet John, and learn from his spirit for life is amazing.

    Rest in Peace, and thank you.

    Comment by Jeff P. — August 20, 2008 @ 4:33 am

  60. My prayers and thoughts go out to the Challis family tonite. I met John in May and had the privledge of him joining me on his high school baseball team’s broadcast. In the short time I spent with him, I saw a truley amazing young man. His attitude, personality,sense of humor, outlook and the way he carried himself impressed me. In this day of so much negativity John brought a light and a positive attitude that is so much needed in this world. There has not been a day that went by I didnt think of him, or my own brother who passed from stomach cancer 9 years ago. I would like to say to his Mother and Father how proud I am of them for raising such a young man. Id like to say to his sister, carry John’s memory on, cherish the memories of him and know hes in God’s hands now.

    Comment by Mike Azadian — August 20, 2008 @ 4:48 am

  61. I heard John on the Dan Patrick show a few times and just read on the internet that he had passed away today, I’m sorry to hear that he sounded like a really great person. Good luck to his family.

    Comment by Mark — August 20, 2008 @ 4:54 am

  62. Bless his heart and John’s family and many friends. I like many of us heard John’s story a number weeks ago on ESPN. I was moved then and even more so when I learned that he has passed. We can and should all bring a little of John’s approach to life with us everyday. John’s inspiration will live well beyond his years on this earth.

    Comment by Jim Badaluco — August 20, 2008 @ 5:43 am

  63. to the challis family
    our sympathy goes out to you all at this time even though we only we knew u a short time it broke our hearts with the passing of johns death … we as parents are given our children to raise and when our children are stricken with illness we dont understand why but we do do all the we can and john is to commended …my son was diagnosed with an incurable disease and john got to call him one day that meant so much to me and my son what a blessing this young man was and his memory will live on i was so teary eyed when i heard the news about johns death my son felt the same ..this young man had such a way about him him he never gave up my son admired that about him my heart goes out to u all and i hope we can stay in touch theres a song called i can only imagine ,,, john can can say i dont have to imagine he is with his lord and saviour now such a blessing to all who came on contact with him we love u challis family

    Comment by robinmccune and family — August 20, 2008 @ 1:53 pm

  64. here a song that i wanted to post on here
    i can only imagine what it will be like when i walk
    by your side i can only imagine what my eyes will
    see when your face is before me i can only imagine
    surrounded by your glory what will my heart feel will
    i dance for you jesus or in awe of you be still
    will i stand in your presence or to my knees will i
    fall will i sing halleluah will i be able to speak
    at all i can only imagine i can only imagine i can
    only imagine when that day comes and i find my self standing in the son ican only imagine when all ican do is forever worship you

    Comment by robin mccune and family — August 20, 2008 @ 4:26 pm

  65. The world was blessed with an very couragous young man. The Challis family should stand tall and proud, John was a fine young man. Thank you for letting all of us come into your lives during a rough time, thanks for letting us get to know John. We never personally met him but we felt we had known him for a life time. Today alone I have read hundreds of post on several websites all about John Challis, he touched many lives and will continue for the years to come. We are so glad that one of John’s dreams came true and that is this foundation. I truely hope people do what they can to keep his dreams alive.

    May God and John watch over the Challis family and friends as this will be a rough period in your life but know that John’s spirit will alway be with you. Every time the sun rises and the stars shine that will be John looking down on you.

    Courage + Believe = Life (a true inspiration, John Challis)

    Comment by Osborne Family — August 20, 2008 @ 4:46 pm

  66. My mother recently passed away due to complications from breast cancer. I know she always viewed John as her hero since he was diagnosed with cancer at such a young age. She felt that if he could overcome cancer for so long and being so young having to go through everything that he did, that she could too. Well I’d like to believe that John and my mom are smiling down on all us from Heaven today because they finally got to meet face to face. My thoughts and prayers go out to John’s family, friends, and all whom John’s story of strength and courage have touched over the years. John was without a doubt a beacon of hope, strength, and courage for my mom and our family during her battle with cancer and John will continue to shine down on each and every one of us. God Bless!!!!

    Comment by Megan Coppetti — August 20, 2008 @ 5:38 pm

  67. John is an inspiration. He is an example of how to live and how to pass on with courage, grace, dignity, and Faith. John’s family is equally an inspiration. They show us how to love and to be strong and to be faithful. We are blessed to have known John and to have learned from him and his family.

    Comment by Melissa Cochran — August 20, 2008 @ 7:28 pm

  68. Jhon, I have followed your story and find you to be a huge inspiration. Thank you for spreading your love across the world. You have touched many of us. God bless

    Comment by Paul Moston — August 20, 2008 @ 7:40 pm

  69. John,
    I am so sad that you had to leave this world so soon, but now you are in heaven with the angels. I will continue to pray for your family during these difficult times. You were and still are a true inspiration to me; the kind of person I want to be. May you be in peace in heaven!

    Comment by Tiffany — August 20, 2008 @ 9:02 pm

  70. to challis family,

    our sympathy goes out to you and your family on the loss of a person who was admired by many. As that of many others who read of john’s couragous battle he touch many lives with his true inspiration. John and your family will continue to be in our prayers and to that your son touch many lives through the way he handled those last couple of years. May john and god almighty give you the strength during these trying times. May god bless your family and friends always.

    Comment by Jim Parise — August 20, 2008 @ 10:00 pm

  71. Challis family,

    Your sons story is something I will share with my family as well as carry it with me. Johns courage is inspirational and it is amazing how one life truly affected so many others. Most of live life with the hope of leaving some sort of legacy. Johns legacy will live on. My prayers are with you and God bless John.

    Comment by Kevin LaComb — August 21, 2008 @ 1:59 am

  72. God Rest your soul John. May you rest in peace. What an inspiration John was to the world. He will live on in the hearts of so many.

    Comment by Kristen — August 21, 2008 @ 2:39 am

  73. It would be nice if the foundation for John Challis would sell T-shirts and sweatshirt with Johns saying on it and also the bracelets with the saying on it as well. The money made is for a great cause

    Comment by Kristen — August 21, 2008 @ 2:41 am

  74. I HAVE FOLLOWED THIS YOUNG MAN’S BEAUTIFUL JOURNEY TO OUR FINAL GOAL, TO MEET OUR LORD. HIS TIME ON EARTH CAN BE SUMMED UP IN JUST ONE WORD…AMAZING! GOD BLESS JOHN AND HIS FAMILY.

    GERRY MARZILLO
    FRANKLIN PARK, ILL.

    Comment by Gerry Marzillo — August 21, 2008 @ 4:41 pm

  75. I WOULD LIKE TO SEND MY CONDOLENCES TO JOHN’S FAMILY AND FRIENDS. MY FAMILY AND I HAVE BEEN MOVED BY YOUR STORY, AND JOHN IS TRULY ONE OF THE MOST AMAZING PEOPLE THIS WORLD HAS EVER BEEN GRACED WITH. WE WILL KEEP YOU IN OUR HEARTS ALWAYS, AND EVEN THOUGH I NEVER KNEW YOU, I WILL BE PROUD TO SPREAD YOUR INSPIRATIONAL STORY.

    Comment by matthew vanasse — August 21, 2008 @ 6:43 pm

  76. I first heard of John’s story one day when I saw the ESPN story about him. I was deeply moved and at the same time, John’s amazing outlook on his situation was uplifting. Now that I see he has passed on, my deepest respects go to his friends and family.

    To have known John personally must have been a real treat and I hope that his legacy will be remembered for many years to come. God bless.

    Comment by Jay Grahovac — August 21, 2008 @ 8:54 pm

  77. My deepest sympathies to the Callis family. Alot of us often wonder what purpose god has put us here for. John found that answer and shared it with us all. Although he was only with us for a short period of time, the impact that he made on many of us (myself included)will never be forgotten. My thanks to the Challis family for allowing John into my life with his words and spirit.
    God Bless

    Comment by George Smith — August 22, 2008 @ 2:32 am

  78. to the challis family
    we just wanted to add something may god be with you though out this time your son was a remarkable young man from what we read and may gods peace be with you at this time his memory will live on in our hearts no one could ever take his place

    Comment by robinmccune and family — August 22, 2008 @ 2:38 pm

  79. To the Challis Family,
    I have never met you or John; however, I want to tell you how he has touched my life. I am and English teacher at Ringgold High School in Monongahela, PA. This was my first year teaching. Fear entered my head every day because I had no idea if I would ever get through to the students. But, I kept John’s everlasting words in my mind as I ended the year; ‘It’s not how many breaths you take but what you do with each breath you do take’. To this teacher, it was not how much content I taught during the year; but what I did with the content. For me it was the messages of life I gave the students with the content. I confess I did not make it through much last year. But, I know I taught the students the golden rule of life.

    I really wish I could have met John and his family. He is truly an amazing individual that has touched this English teacher’s life and heart. My God bless you and keep the precious memories of John’s life in your hearts forever. John, thank you for being an inspiration to me now and always.

    Comment by Sarah Knox — August 24, 2008 @ 10:26 pm

  80. I just recently heard of John’s passing. I cannot tell you how sorry I am for your loss. I learned of John a few month’s ago through his story on ESPN. It was truly an inspirational story, especially for me. I have had five back surgeries in the last five years, and 80% of my spine is permanently fused.

    I had a very strange meeting with a stranger on Father’s Day, Which inspired me to do something for others! Along with John’s belief in “courage + belief = life” really inspired me.

    Anyways, what I have done because of John and the lady I met on Fathers day is that I have started a support group for Chronic Pain Victims, like myself, I have received a national sponsorship from the American Chronic Pain Association, and hopefully by November we will have our first meeting.

    What I want you to know is that John was more than a young man with cancer! John was an “INSPIRATION”!

    Comment by Richard — August 24, 2008 @ 11:25 pm

  81. The Challis Family –

    I first “met” John while watching the Pen’s game he attended during the cup finals. I’m a Pittsburgh native living in Minnesota and have been trying to keep up on his life happenings. I have been praying daily for him from the night I watched your beautiful, wonderful, charismatic son on television. He was not only an inspiration, he was an apostle on earth spreading God’s message. We never know why an “angel” is taken at such a young age, but John seemed to know God’s plan. My faith has become stronger after traumas in my life and the deaths of my parents, yet the strength of his Catholic faith at his young age drops me to my knees and makes me know I have much further to go. You should be so proud to have raised such a fine young man. As the prayer I said for John every night ends, he is in “the joy of eternal glory in His loving embrace” and deservedly so. May God Bless your family.

    Comment by Colleen Miller — August 25, 2008 @ 12:20 am

  82. I was at St. Paul’s Seminary on Saturday August 23rd and Bishop Zubik gave a homily about your son John Challis and his brave battle with cancer and his love of God and his church. He was an amazing young man and touched so many peoples lives. John will never be forgotten. May God continue to bless your family.

    Comment by Lori — August 25, 2008 @ 2:31 am

  83. To the family of John Challis:

    I don’t think that there are enough words to describe the way John has touched so many people’s lives. I did not know John personally but have followed his story in the paper, on television, etc. He touched my life in a way that we need to treat every single day as a Gift from God because at the end of the day, it truly is. And our time on earth here is only determined by one, God.

    Thank you John for your messages about life, for being so positive and so strong in your faith. It is reflected in so many others what you have done. God surely is congratulating you on a job well Done..To me, your a hero, a role model of what more people should be like every day!!!

    God Bless you always and forever..and may God watch over your famly during this difficult time..

    Comment by Valerie — August 26, 2008 @ 2:16 am

  84. My prayers are with the family and friends of this dear beloved God’s child. I too have lost siblings thru cancer and the suffering is the hardest when you pray every second of the day for a cure. May God Watch over you all and the one’s that suffer their beloved loss.

    Comment by Dolly Fay — August 26, 2008 @ 2:50 am

  85. I am now a size 12 and i was a 14…ok only just but it is definitely down to the chocolate, as I no longer snack on fatty chocolate plus I have started my own Xocai business and my friends just love me for it!!!

    Comment by xocai — August 30, 2008 @ 9:02 am

  86. it\’s taken the USA by storm and people are earning big bucks with through healthy chocolate…sounds good to me!

    Comment by xocai — August 30, 2008 @ 2:48 pm

  87. To the Challis family: I hope you are all doing well. I am sure it is very hard for you without John. Know he is in a better place waiting for God to call each of you home one day to be with John again. He is no longer suffering and free from pain. He is missed by so many. I am sure it helps to comfort you knowing that John touched so many people in his short life lived on earth. You did a wonderful job raising such a fine young man. He kept fighting cancer to live each day that he had left on earth to be with those that meant so much to John. What an honor to have Bishop Zubic at the funeral and to have an article in the Pittsburgh Catholic. Bishop Zubic did a homily about John’s love for God. He was such a fighter. Always remember when you are having down days that John touched so many people around the world. He was a brave and courageous young man that was not afraid to all how much God meant to him. May God Bless all of you.

    Comment by Andrea — September 5, 2008 @ 2:32 am

  88. Challis Family, I Hope You Know What A Inspiration John Was To So Many People Including Myself. It’s Amazing How He Brought Some Many Positive Things For Others Out Of His Sickness. My Prayers Are With You. God Bless

    Comment by Lauren M — October 15, 2008 @ 12:07 am

  89. I remember seeing John on TV during the NHL playoffs… What he had to say then really touched me — he was so courageous in a situation that most of us can not imagine. When I found out tonight that he has passed on.. reading about how he lived the final months.. graduating HS, getting the hit at the baseball game. Well, what can I say? it made a grown man cry. I’m gonna take his message and try my best to apply it to my own life. Thank you for the gift, JC. C+B=L

    Comment by Rich — October 15, 2008 @ 12:29 am


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